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Second Wife
The words reverberated through my brain. Why? Am i not good enough? Never! I will never accept a second wife! If you want a second wife tou can go out and get one as long as you know that i will not be here when you come back! Those were my words to my husband a few years ago when he mentioned to me that he is intending to marry again a second time. It qas a women recently divorced, 4 children. She is having a hard time, he said, she don't know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. "Where is there father?" I asked, "can't he take care of his own kids? Why do you a strange man have to carry another man's burden? Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to marry her! I couldn't imagine myself in a plural marriage. Sharing my husband qith another woman. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I could not fathom him holding her close
40 ways of giving Sadaqa
40 طرح کا صدقہ... 40 ways of giving Sadaqa 1. دوسرے کو نقصان پہونچانے سے بچنا صدقہ ہے۔ [بخاری: 2518] To prevent oneself from creating difficulties for others 2. اندھے کو راستہ بتانا صدقہ ہے۔ [ابن حبان: 3368] To show the way or guide a blind person 3. بہرے سے تیز آواز میں بات کرنا صدقہ ہے۔ [ابن حبان: 3368] To speak in a slightly raised voice with a person who has loss of hearing 4 . گونگے کو اس طرح بتانا کہ وہ سمجھ سکے صدقہ ہے۔ [ابن حبان: 3377] To speak with explanatory actions with a dumb person 5. کمزور آدمی کی مدد کرنا صدقہ ہے۔ [ابن حبان: 3377] To help a week and helpless person 6. راستے سے پتھر,کانٹا اور ہڈی ہٹانا صدقہ ہے۔ [مسلم: 1007] To remove harmful objects from a path( stone, bone, Thorne) 7. مدد کے لئے پکارنے والے کی دوڑ کر مدد کرنا صدقہ ہے۔ [ابن حبان: 3377] To respond immediately to someone asking for help 8. اپنے ڈول سے کسی بھائی کو پانی دینا صدقہ ہے۔ [ترمذی: 1956] To share water from ones own full water container 9. بھٹکے ہوئے شخص کو راستہ بتانا صدقہ ہے